the basics in preparing for marriage.

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the basics in preparing for marriage.

During marriage preparation, marriage many simple tips that I found. But ironically, most of these tips come from people outside the country. From our own country, only one that I found that it really emphasizes the simplicity of 'a real populist' and by the religion. And unfortunately, almost all of these tips apply not succeed me when I got married.

In order for other brides getting married in a simple vision (as well as Earth-friendly) can be more fortunate than I am, following a few simple tips wedding (for the basics) that I from various sources:

* Only invite those who really WANT to invite.
Practice is difficult. In fact, VERY difficult. As my experience, the average bride-prone dilemma in deciding who they MUST laws, though in their minds there is a separate list of who they WANT to law. When the family becomes a constraint, at least try half of the 'quota' guest you invite the people who are really you want present at your special event. The count was clear, the more you invite, the more spending for consumption. The more that you invite, the event which was held no longer feels intimate.


* Wear clothes that you already have.
The bridal fashion designers will find this one tips the 'threat', hehe. Well, my revision. Make the extra sustenance, both to hold the wedding or for the life of the household, please make or buy or rent an expensive dress. Create a category just outside, these tips can be considered. The average woman usually has at least one piece of kebaya that was certainly well cared for, even rarely worn. Why not marry a kebaya wearing that? I've seen an Indonesian bride who married 'only' wear short-sleeved blouse and white batik skirts, and sandals. Her husband wore a loose-fitting long-sleeved shirt is white with a thin scarf around his neck, combined with a pair of batik (a motive similar to the wife's skirt), and sandals as well. Do they look happy? Very! Since they got married, my point.


* Married in place or location that is beautiful by nature.
Largest expenditure in a marriage, after consumption, usually a rental place and the decor. When planning to get married at home, why not decorate the house with pots of plants in the family? Or with the curtains in the house a good motive? Or even a balloon? (You might not believe it, but in England there are wedding reception location 'only' decorated with balloons of different colors). If you do not want to trouble at home, why not try to borrow or rent the places other than commercial buildings that can rent for college costs? Borrow a neighbor's back yard wide? Try renting a museum with a request not to display managers exorbitant prices (because the cost of the visitor enters the museum is usually cheaper, so why just because there are going to get married and then used to expensive price)? If a place or location has a unique marriage, the addition of decorations can be 'damaging' the original beauty of the place (this could be a reason to cross out the purposes of decoration that can cost crazy).


* Married before sunset.
Why? So that no or not much electricity is used. If the marriage had a lot of windows, just open the windows, let the natural light that dominates, then turn off the AC. If the decor needs lights, why not replace the decorations with the decor that does not require the help of decorative lighting effects?


* Simple guidelines and 'green': had his own use, borrow, make your own, lease.
In that order; the most simple and environmentally friendly of course use what we already have. If not enough, borrow. He said, marriage in Indonesia is a large family , it could be a reason to borrow this and that. Then, make your own (by pressing budget). Finally, rent. Even abroad have some special community that renting a wedding dress 'former', which facilitates the exchange couple bride, and so on.

For the bride Indonesia, as my experience, practice tips above will feel heavy. Never mind the practice, to discuss with parents also had a lump. I used to, this simple suggestion-that the parents and none of them approved. But, at least I've tried. That's all that matters.